Daygame.com – Daygame BluePrint
Daygame.com – Daygame BluePrint
The Daygame Blueprint was recorded at a seminar in central London a few years ago. The goal was simple: to teach each of the attendees everything that they needed to know to consistently meet women in everyday situations and begin a relationship with them.
Taught by Yad and Andy Yosha, the founders of daygame.com, this seminar involved taking their collective years of experience approaching women during the daytime and infusing that knowledge into the audience members. No easy task, which is why the event went for a full three days.
The resulting DVDs (when you purchase this course you view them online) are so chock-full of information that it feels like you’ve attended the seminar personally. There are five different modules included, with a number of lengthy videos in each, as well as a bonuses section. Don’t expect to be able to digest the contents of this program in just a day. While the price might seem high at first, it’s actually very reasonable in terms of the quality of information you are receiving.
Because there is so much detail here, there is nothing that is left out. A lot of time is spent on demonstrating the correct way to approach a woman on the street, including the right body language, vocal tonality and what to actually say. Because there are a few coaches demonstrating, they provide a few variations so you can see how the principles apply but still allow you freedom to try different things.
The approach is demonstrated on a woman live during the seminar, as well as during in-field clips of Yad initiating conversations with women on the streets of London. Yad is well known for his penchant for highly attractive eastern European women, and just goes to show that looks are not as important as confidence and personality when it comes to dating beautiful girls.
Probably the most impressive thing about these in-field videos of Yad is how unimpressive they are. Meaning, Yad doesn’t do anything really unique that any other guy couldn’t do to get the same results. There are no fancy tricks here, just relating as a man to a woman and being honest and playful. The fact that almost no guys ever approach a woman on the street in this way is one of the reasons it works so effectively.
The area of attraction is covered in detail, including how to challenge a woman when you just meet her and how to ‘flip the script’ after you compliment her so you don’t give her all of the power. The exercises on assumption stacking will be particularly useful for nearly everybody watching this, and just getting an understanding of that alone will help boost your success.
Differences From Night Game
When you’re in a bar or nightclub, you generally have a lot more options open to you about how you’re going to appoach a girl. Because she’s unlikely to be in a rush to leave the venue, you can take things a bit slower and use tactics such as social proof to your advantage to get her interested before you even approach her. In the daytime, you really don’t have this luxury.
That’s why the method taught here is to be as efficient as possible. If you see the girl of your dreams walking by on the street you might only have a couple of seconds to physically get her attention and let her know why you’re talking to her. The best way to do that, as advised here, is to give her a genuine compliment based on something you notice about her. From there you can use a few different techniques to pique her interest and stop the interaction from falling into a boring, interview-style conversation.
Because there’s no alcohol and loud music involved, no friends to distract her, and a thousand other variables you might find at night, there’s more of a focus on being genuine and developing a connection with women. As Yad says, unless a woman feels she has a sense of who you are and you have a genuine interest in her, things aren’t going to go anywhere.
A large focus is placed on having an ‘instadate’, which is a term for going on a date then and there with the girl you’ve just met. The idea behind this is that it’s more solid and cements you more in the girl’s mind rather than just exchanging phone numbers. There are demonstrations on how to do this as well as in-field footage showing it in action. Once you see how to apply this, it becomes easier than you might imagine to go on an instadate with someone you’ve only been talking to for a couple of minutes.
There are a few guest speakers throughout the course, with a lot of interesting ideas to share, including a discussion on how to build happiness and supercharge your self-esteem. Really interesting presentation with a lot of deep insights into human behviour that can make a big difference to your inner game.
Alex Love gives a great speech about sex from an evolutionary biology perspective. There’s a good mix of theory here combined with some practical insights that you can put to good use. His discussion on how women place their own social value as their primary concern, with sex being secondary to that, will be really useful for most guys to hear. And his demonstrations of how he remains unreactive and handles the situation when his attempts at escalation don’t go smoothly are very educational.
Tom Torero discusses how to approach girls in daytime situations other than the street. He talks about how the opening line you might use with great success on the street would be a bad idea in a coffee shop or on public transport. There’s some good advice here for guys who want to become better at approaching women in a variety of situations.
What Could Have Been Improved
Because this is a filmed seminar, there are a number of times the guests are asking questions throughout. While there is a good attempt made to make sure they are given a microphone, there are times that this doesn’t happen. So there are a few instances of the speaker on stage giving an answer to an inaudible question. There’s a couple of times when a guest doesn’t really understand something and asks some random questions that sort of take things off on a tangent. Mildly annoying, but can’t really be helped.
It also would have been great to see some in-field footage from anyone else other than Yad, just to show some different styles. The clips of Yad are really good, but it would have helped to mix it up a bit.
The actual seminar involved scheduled breaks for all of the attendees to go out into the streets and put into practice what they were learning by doing real approaches. When they come back there is time spent by the coaches giving feedback on these sessions. As the course is already quite long, this section could have been cut from the DVDs without losing anything of value.
Daygame Blueprint Bonuses
You get a number of bonuses included with this product. One of these is a two-part video from a daygame bootcamp run by a different company based in Australia. It’s the lecture portion and the instructor is telling students about their own daygame model and giving them specifics on what to do to start conversations with women in different situations.
There are some differences here and there with what Yad and Andy teach, such as using a more indirect approach quite often. There are different methods and styles that work so the best thing is to try out the different ideas that are taught here and see what gets the best results for you.